◆ A Book in Three Parts
Get It Off Me Put It Down Leave It There
“She was always there.
She is here now.
She leads.”
Identity.Confidence.Evolution.
“She was always there.
She is here now.
She leads.”
This is a book for the woman who has been carrying things that were never hers to carry.
Written in three parts within one complete book — naming, releasing, and staying released — it traces the arc from survival to intention. From the woman who adapted to every room, to the woman who became the room.
Deeply personal. Honest. Built on purpose.
One complete book in three parts — each part a distinct chapter in the journey from carrying to releasing to leading.
The naming. The recognition. The first exhale.
The first step is always the hardest — seeing clearly what has been weighing you down. Part One is about naming what has been sitting on your chest for years. The guilt. The roles. The expectations that were never yours to hold. This part gives you the language to finally say: enough.
The release. The letting go. The decision to choose yourself.
Knowing what is weighing you down is only the beginning. Part Two is about the courage it takes to actually release it — the relationships, the patterns, the version of yourself that no longer serves you. This part is your permission to stop carrying what was never yours.
The staying. The becoming. The woman who leads.
The final part of the series is about staying free. Part Three is the work of intention — choosing every day not to pick it back up. It is about building a life that reflects who you actually are, not who you were conditioned to be. This is the evolution.
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Each part is its own world — its own emotional territory, its own work to do. Hover or tap any card to see all chapters.
Before you can put something down, you have to know you are holding it. Part One is the work of seeing clearly — naming the weight, tracing it to its source, and finally having language for what has been sitting on your chest for years.
Naming it was one thing. Releasing it is another. Part Two is about the courage it takes — letting go of the relationships, patterns, and versions of yourself that no longer serve the woman you are becoming.
The hardest part is not letting go. It is not picking it back up. Part Three is the daily intentional work of building a life so genuinely yours that the old one loses its pull entirely.
This book found me at exactly the right moment. I have been carrying so much for so long, and reading these pages felt like someone finally understood. I sobbed and healed on the same page.
Donnika does not just write at you — she writes with you, beside you, and somehow ahead of you, clearing the path. Put It Down gave me language for things I could not say out loud.
Leave It There is the book I will give to every woman I love. It is not about arriving — it is about deciding to stay arrived. I have read it three times and still find things I needed.
Donnika P writes from the inside out. Her work is rooted in the honest, sometimes uncomfortable, always liberating process of becoming who you actually are — not the woman the world decided you should be.
Through her three-part series, she has created a body of work that thousands of women have called a mirror, a lifeline, and a permission slip all at once.
She is not a guru. She is a guide — someone who has done the work, is doing the work, and believes deeply that the work is always worth it.
Her voice is direct. Her perspective is earned. And her commitment to the women who pick up this book is total — because she was that woman too. She knows what it costs to keep carrying. She knows what it feels like to finally put it down. And she wrote this book so you could feel that too.
Donnika P does not perform for rooms. She meets them. The same raw honesty and transformative presence that lives in her book shows up in every keynote, workshop, and community gathering she walks into.
Helping women name who they actually are beneath all the roles they have been performing.
Donnika takes audiences through the process of separating who they genuinely are from who they were taught to be. This talk dismantles the performed self and creates permission to live from the inside out.
A practical, emotionally honest framework for identifying and putting down what you have been carrying.
This is the talk that changes rooms. Donnika walks audiences through the real work of release — not the Instagram version, but the honest, ongoing, uncomfortable, life-changing practice of actually letting go.
From the woman who survives every room to the woman who leads it — without shrinking or waiting for permission.
Earned confidence, not performed confidence. Donnika breaks down how real leadership is built through daily acts of self-fidelity — and what it looks like when a woman stops waiting for permission to lead her own life.
The complete journey from Get It Off Me through Put It Down to Leave It There — in one transformative session.
Donnika’s signature keynote. Built around the complete three-part framework — naming, releasing, staying released — it delivers a full emotional arc in a single session. Audiences leave with language, clarity, and permission they did not have when they walked in.
The power of women telling the truth in the same room. A workshop-style experience built for real conversation.
This is not a lecture. It is a guided community experience where women name what they have been carrying in the presence of other women doing the same work. Something shifts in the room that cannot happen in isolation.
What staying in your growth actually looks like — the daily decisions, the grace, the practice.
The work does not end with a single breakthrough. This talk is for women who have started the journey and need the tools and language to stay in it — building a life that reflects who they actually are now.
Donnika is built for the conference stage. Whether she is opening the day, closing it, or sitting in the middle of it as a featured speaker, she reads the room and delivers what the moment needs. She does not recite a speech. She has a conversation with hundreds of women at once — and somehow, every one of them feels like she is talking directly to them.
A Donnika P keynote does not inspire and fade. It lands. She uses the arc of her three-part framework to take audiences from where they are to somewhere they did not expect to reach in a single session. Especially powerful as a closing address — she sends rooms away with something they carry with them.
When Donnika P shows up to a book club, it is not a Q&A. It is a continuation of the work. She facilitates real conversation around the book, going deeper into the chapters, answering the questions the reader was afraid to ask on paper, and holding space for the honesty that the book invites. These events are intimate, transformative, and unlike any author appearance most groups have experienced.
The themes of this work — identity, performance, confidence, boundaries, authentic leadership — are exactly what corporate women’s programs need and rarely deliver honestly. Donnika brings the same directness to the boardroom that she brings to the community hall. No corporate speak. Real tools. Real conversation. Real change.
Donnika’s work resonates deeply in faith communities because at its core, it is about truth — telling it, living it, being freed by it. Her approach honors the spiritual without being prescriptive about it. She meets faith communities where they are and invites the women in them to meet themselves more honestly than they may have before.
Donnika’s presence translates. Virtual events with Donnika P are not compromises — they are experiences. She has refined her virtual delivery to create the same intimacy and impact across a screen that she creates in a room. Hybrid events are handled with the same intentionality: both the in-person and remote audiences receive her full presence.
Tell us about your event and what you are trying to create for the women in the room. Every inquiry is reviewed personally — not by a booking agency, not by a form letter.
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